By Al Knobloch
There is a human psychological maxim that states, people like to find themselves inside a story.
Once upon a time, there were two groups of people who decided to have a pot luck dinner on a Saturday Night.
The first group, the GG’s, all made plans on what to bring, and eagerly made sure all arrangements were made so the party would be a successful and enjoyable occasion. When they all arrived, there was plenty of food and drink for everyone because each member brought not only enough, but a little extra, for insurance.
At the end of the night, everyone went home with a full stomach, satisfied appetite, and a warm fuzzy feeling that carried over the weekend and into the following business week. A few people even arranged some business deals that eventually paid off. The old saying “the whole is greater than the sum of the parts” was certainly in play, as there was food left over and a positive outlook and general sense of well being was had by all.
Then there was a second group, the L’SOEDI’s, who planned to have the same party on the same Saturday Night. While they all looked forward to it, life and business got in the way of their commitment to bring their respective dishes. Many of them thought, no big deal, there will be enough…..someone will cover it.
When they all arrived, there was no food or drink. Everyone had fallen victim to the same line of thinking. After some grumbling and chatter, they all went home, empty stomach, unsatisfied, and a feeling of disappointment in their hearts. This carried over the weekend like a cloud, and some even quit the group. The old saying “the whole is greater than the sum of the parts” was certainly in play as well, only in reverse. There was nothing leftover but a negative outlook and a general sense of time wasted was had by all.
The moral of this story: Your chapter needs you for Leadership and Support positions. If everyone takes and no one gives back, what do you think will happen to our chapter? If you have been asked to serve, consider it an honor that we thought highly enough of you to do so….and please reconsider. If you have been considering it, now is the time to step up and commit. There are still several spots available, and we need you to get involved. Which group in this story do you want to belong to???
Oh, and the acronyms…. GG is Givers Gain and L’SOEDI = Let Someone Else Do It.
This Education Moment has been brought to you by Chapter President and BNI Ambassador to Chapter Development, Al Knobloch. You can reach Al at: Al.Knobloch@BNI4Success.com
His motto is: Past performance does not guarantee future results. All investments carry some degree of risk.